I am no expert on love,
But I have a few suggestions to keeping your love alive.
1- Don’t fall asleep angry. But if you do, wake up in the middle of the night and hold her as close as you can.
2- Laugh during sex, especially if you bump heads. If you aren’t laughing, you’re with the wrong person.
3- If you don’t feel comfortable dancing naked with your partner and showing them your four chins when you laugh, you’re doing it wrong.
4- Romance isn’t for everyone, but a post-it note in their lunchbox telling them they’re the best will never go amiss.
5- Don’t cling to them at parties. Dance with friends and spend time with acquaintances, but wink at each other across the room.
6- Keep everything 50/50, or you will fall out of balance.
7- Stop comparing your relationship to others- you are you, don’t try to be someone else.
8- Be kind. Give them space when they need it, but be their home when they come back.
9- Be proud to love them.
10- Support them through whatever they do in life, even if it’s a stupid decision. People need to make their own mistakes, but be there if it falls apart, and never say ‘I told you so’.
And most of all, love with your whole heart, or don’t love at all. (via little-dyke)

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2 days ago // 78,899 notes
repressivetolerance:

dimondprick:

minazarei:


asperatus cloud x

IT’S LIKE WATCHING THE WAVES ABOVE YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF THE OCEAN

what if….we are under an ocean…

x

Because when I was 13 years old, I was sent home for my tank top straps being a little too thin, but a boy could wear a Cool Story babe, Go Make Me A Sandwich shirt and not be looked at twice.

Because when I was 17 and I told a guy “No” and the next day the word tease was painted on my locker.

Because when I was 18 and just wanted to be friends, I was a bitch.

Because I feel the need to say “I have a boyfriend” instead of “No” because guys respect other men more than they would ever respect me.

Because society screams “don’t get raped” instead of “don’t rape”

Because I am scared to walk alone at 10 PM

Because being beautiful is the most important thing I’ll ever do.

Because when I wear my favorite skirt “I’m asking for it”

Because the song Blurred Lines exists

Because no means no no matter how you fucking spin it

Because a girl was drugged and raped with a beer bottle, and the boys who did it are out on bail.

Because I owe you nothing

Because pepper spray is a gift I receive yearly.

Because I am asked if I have a boyfriend more than I am asked about my mental health

Because my clothes say more about my consent then my mouth does.

Because the wage gap exists

Because “not all men are like that” is said way too often

ENOUGH ARE

Because I feel the need to say “I’m not a feminist but…”

Because I’m writing this fucking piece

When you ask why I’m angry? (via brennanat)

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2 months ago // 318,975 notes
I don’t demand you to be someone that you’re not.
I don’t demand you to write me a poetry
Or compose me a song.
If you can’t and if you won’t, then hush baby,
Because I would still love everything about you. just in case you didn’t know, msshearty (via escafeism)

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2 months ago // 153 notes

Life is unfair. You put someone first who puts you second. You study your ass off for a final only to get a C. You give 110% to someone in a relationship who only gives 40%. You’re there for a best friend at 3:00am and the next day they don’t pick up their phone. It seems like you’re giving everyone everything and they’re just walking away with it.

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2 months ago // 715,292 notes
ckings:

saysomething-im:

hotcheetoprincess:

sweetflattery:

ckings:

this is possibly one of the smartest thing someone did hahaahha

amazing

if you have to bribe and coddle your husband into taking care of his own children and fulfilling fatherly duties with a sticker chart u need a new husband

weosf;jwrliej NO, NO, NO, FUCK THE PERSON WHO’S CALLING THE HUSBAND A CHILD HERE, FUCK YOU SO MUCH.
Do you have any idea how helpful stuff like this is for people with ADHD and depression? When my partner and I have to do something we don’t want to, like clean the house or whatever, a lot of times we’ll do shit like this to encourage each other. It simplifies things. It makes chores fun. It’s fucking helpful you ableist trash. 
This isn’t fucking childish, it isn’t bribery, it’s an effective fucking tool for helping people like me with mental disabilities to not feel so anxious about living up to the expectations of adulthood. So go chew on some god damn rocks.
And to people who reblog this without criticism: I’m not yelling at you, but please read what I said and learn from it. This shit is not okay.

Bless the comment above.

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3 months ago // 2,676 notes

askezzy:

to all my new followers. buns

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to those who have stayed. buns

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to those who unfollowed. bunsimage

to those who see this and then follow. buns

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doesnt matter.

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everyone gets buns

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3 months ago // 83,680 notes